Re: Moving too fast?
Well we can’t say for sure but maybe he had a change of heart? Maybe the other things he liked in your daughter over weighed this one thing and that made him compromise on it? And you did mention that he talked to your daughter about making the family a priority over work, so maybe he is just going to manage with this compromise?
I can understand you being the father must be having all kinds of thoughts and rightly so. I think you should take your time and if need be, ask the guy what made him compromise on this? maybe his answer will satifsy you.
Good-luck 
Allah sab k naseeb achey kare, Aameen.