this is the result u get when u dnt keep in touch with ur roots, we must never forget that no matter wat at the end of the day we r of pakistani heritage, and we have to teach our children about it n take them to see the place so they can also understand wat its like to live out there
rite now, y r u sooo worried about the cooking n cleaning im sure its getting done whilst ur not even married yet …so y cant it carry on in the same manner after ur marriage?
i never learnt how to cook or do any chores but i thank my parents for having taken me back to pak wen i was young so i knew wat it was like if i had to live there. There was a point in my life where i thought i have no choice but to move to pakistan, but i wasnt worried, y? because i had seen the life n had a rough idea even if i was 12 when i went it stil made a huge difference.
its never too late, even if u have to move over im sure they can hire a maid or smething or u can just wtch n learn well thts wat i did n i did it in 6 mnths n to b fair n honest life isnt that hard in a joint family..its just how ppl portray it
good luck
i wouldnt say im not in touch with my roots…cos i am we go back to pakistan every year for 6 weeks in the holidays i love it there..BUT thats a holiday you know ur going to come back…
and i somehow dont think i will get away with not doing the housework..
thanks for that insight