it doesnt work that way/..hubby ko phir bhi apni wife ki aur wife ko hubby ki shortcomings itni nazar nahin aati aur pinch nahin karti but in laws ko nazar bhi aati hain aur pinch bhi karti hain n larki ki maa bhi quick hoti hai point out karne mein k damaad mein kya kharaabi hai and larrke ki maa is also quick to point out to her son the shortcomings of his wife…n then hubby starts seeing things n they pinch him when those shortcmings were there before too.
and another thing is no matter how nice u are to ur in laws saari umar sacrifices karte raho woh achi bahu hone ka award jo hai na woh kabhi nahin milta…ive seen that a lot in my extended family and even his
and i have yet to see a hubby who totally ignores his gharwaalon k comments on his wife…
i have yet to see a hubby who is not influenced by his mum’s comments
i have yet to see a hubby who stands up for his wife especially inf ront of his mom…no way
i agreee i think guys will always listen to the woman that brought them into this world..there is a connection between parent and child that cannot be broken by a third person