moving to pakistan to live with in laws

[Afro-Sheen]

@Deeba1234

^ Sometimes girl’s parents are reluctant to ask about her future living arrangements, they want to present the image that she’s subservient and totally happy with wherever she is expected to live.

A distant cousin of mine from ‘back home’ married a guy here in the UK, had never visited beforehand or even asked where she’d be living. She went from being brought up in a mansion to living in a bedsit sharing a bathroom with two other couples and having to work part-time in Tesco cos the boy’s family had exaggerated his ‘comfortable’ lifestyle. How mad is it that her parents could ask what do the uncles, aunties, cousins, grandparents do and where they come from etc. but not ask such basic things as what conditions will my daughter be living in after the marriage??

This is their daughter, I dont understand the reluctance. If They want to present a subservient image, they shouldnt be shocked when in-laws demand such a thing…its wrong…but that IS the image they presented…so why cry over it later…I things major things should be talked about up-front …