and ur right i dnt really have a choice i cant break up an engagement based on this one thing..and iv already told him not to expect me to be a ‘robot bahu’ cos i havent learnt how to do anything..
also i was speaking to him yest and he admitted to me the reason he doesnt want to come to the uk is becuse he doesnt want anyone to say he married me for my passport..which i understand..but y does he care what ppl think?