ARGHHHHHH!!!
hello…so basically im engaged my hubby to be is the only son in his family he has 3 other sisters and they are already married with kids..m,A the sisters are lovely they are a lil older than me and treat me with love and care…the problem is…my hubby to be wants me to not only move to pak but also live with MIL and FIL …i mean his parents are equally as lovely…even from before our rishta…as we are family friends…
BUT i mean to be honest im not a daughter in law type of girl..as in i cant do the cooking looking after the in laws situation…living in england iv never had to lift a finger…i mean i do but i havent been taught to cook or anything..i can make tea..but i have no idea what to do…i was under the impression that i would be living in pak…which i have to say i was reluctant to do…but now i have to live with the in laws…i come from a very liberal family in the sense that im allowed to do as i please albeit within certain limits..but as in clothes and stuff…hubbys family are all in pak and he himself is quite liberal u know where what u want etc…but then with the parents there it might be…different..
iv already told him not to expect too much from me because its just not in me to be that type of person…in an ideal world id rather live with him somewhere..but i understand he cant leave his parents as he is the only son
Any opinions would be much appreciated
Was it a surprise arrange marriage? Why weren’t these topics brought up & discussed before you said yes to engagement. This could have been done thru your parents. Best of luck to you.