Think about it this way
Your friend had a painful wound that took a very long time to heal.
Do you want to be the one to scratch it open?
(there is no one like your first, don't do this to her, and to yourself - the messenger is always shot)
She married due to force. After reading those letters she will become same person again as she was not agreeing to marry.
Zakham phir say taza ho jaain gay.
Kenji how thoughtful you are.
MARNAY WALAY KI KHUWAHISH POORI KI JAATI HAI. According to Islam.