How do you get over someone you are totally in love with but due to family circumstances u can’t marry them?
Let me have your thoughts… if you have been in love but could not be together…
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Not easy, leave a mark that I guess is not possible to remove. The only way to get over with it is to try to look forward and try to close the chapter that had that love in that. Though chapter will always be existing in the book but just read it again.
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i think it's just like getting over any major break-up...with the caviet that you might end up being forced to attend their wedding...which could be really akward..
Some ppl i know try to get over break-ups by keeping themselves extremely busy with other friends and activities...try to pick up a hobby instead of dwelling over the past...(although it definately is easier said than done!)
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I always wondered how people moved on after leaving the love of their life. I do not know the answer to this question as I cannot move on without the love of my life whom I married. 
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You find someone else equally loveable. 
Seriously.
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He made me move on.
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u dont 
more like, you CANT..
well sure you “can” but really: u cant .. u HOWEVER learn to LIVE with the torturing thought, specially if u REALLY REALLY REALLY liked the person, that you two arent together..
and you learn to spend your life saying " one more day, ONE more day "
feel better 
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I was stupid.
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OoooOOoo...
:whistling ye to koee jaana-pehchaana character lagg raha hay ..
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daayyummm thats harsh now :S
Faizyyyy I feel what u just said :k:
sigh
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^ Thanks
Yeh well thats the way you learn, that the one you like is not always the best..
Oh well..
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it will take some time but u will surely move on.Try to involve urself in different interesting sort of activities. Dont even let urself get bored for a sec or even let ur self time to think about that person.
First thing u need to do is throw away everything that reminds u of him. Music would certainly help too and umm if u need more help just pm me. It will take a lot of time (unfortunatly, i m talking about yrs here :( ) for u to get over that guy.
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so speaking of years.. musicmaniac, is it like ok time-margin of 2, almost 3 years before thinking that u need a partner-figure in life?
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it all depends faizy how deeply a person was attatched to their lover but it will surely take more than a yr.
Just the acceptance of not being with them is gonna be so time taking, so u can c how hard its gonna be to get over um.
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ohoo… yar then i am living with like 14+thoughts simultaneously 
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i think there is nothing like family problems ..
there are only 2 possibilities in life .... be a creator or a creature
well u can be a creature of ure circumstances as well as a creator of them
the choice is urs .
good luck.
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You WILL get over him/her. Time is a great healer and when something isn't meant to be it doesn't work out. Yes as mentioned above it can take years but maybe one day you will be able to walk past each other and not feel that hurt. You may even find someone you love greater.
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someone said there is a reason to everything in life
what is due to happen, will eventuzlly happen, have faith, if your family reasons are REALLY a hurdle to that love, then it means it was not meant to be...
cause when there is a WILL there is a WAY, otherwise it means it was not meant to be...
i know it hurts
i know it will take time, and i know that right now you wish you were just having a nightmare...but you'll get over it, have faith and keep praying, ameen
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so many broken hearts :sigh: