ahh thanks for explainign, so you guys are on some temp rotation out of Pakistan?
anyways as I said, my cousin was was kidnapped is still there and refuses to leave pak, the uncle who was kidnapped had actually returned from US. my dad and his siblings came abroad for education and then experience, al but one went back to Pak later, established businesses, opened hospitals, etc. the kids had a choice to stay in pakistan past college or uni, or go abroad and very few who had grown up abroad made the decision to stay in pakistan. my only cousins in Pakistan are those who were born and raised there.
Well all my realative are in pak apart from few, we are jus here for some time, will move back to Islamabad soon InshAllah :)