Re: Mothers who want their sons to stay single for life
Rainbow, there are countless cases of people (including children) being abused/tortured in this world. Frankly I’m amazed that you’re so passionate about how “horrible” this guy is being treated by his mother…when in reality, the fact is that the 29-year-old grown man is CHOOSING to remain in this situation. His mother isn’t holding a gun to his head while she demands money. At the end, the man is CHOOSING to get rid of the girls and CHOOSING to give his mother the money. I could completely understand if you admitted that you’re interested in marrying this guy…but according to you that’s not the case. So I repeat, personally I’m quite baffled that you feel so passionate about a situation where the “victim” himself isn’t complaining.
Its interesting that you brought up Ramadan and people fixing their personality. Go back and re-read the things you wrote about this guy’s mother. I assume you’re Muslim. So as Muslim, do you believe Islam teaches us to talk like this about someone else’s mother? Especially during Ramadan? Also, as a Muslim, should you also not work on finding peace during this time…instead of focusing on so much animosity?
No, this is not weird. There are MANY men out there who are incapable of saying “no” to their mothers. I’m surprised that as a desi woman, YOU are so shocked by this.