Re: Mothers of the “Players”
why not ? cant a player be a mama bhoy 
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i wonder what goes through the mind of a man whore/player? 
is a woman something he feels he needs to conquer and after she falls for him he loses interest?
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^that, or perhaps commitment/insecurity issues.
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i’ve heard that term from guys “so many women so little time” 
so yea possibly commitment issues
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LOL if that was the case I doubt they would be players
I think they probably get attracted to every good looking woman. When they fall for them, the player gets what he wants ( or doesn’t) he kinda moves on to his next target.
Re: Mothers of the "Players"
some give their beta jees a chitrol if their affair comes to the scene and others just dont care what their kids are doing.
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I've seen incredible sharmindagi from the moms of 5 players that i know.
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Sometimes they know and just turn a blind eye, sometimes they have no idea and are really upset when they find out.
So true
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Yeah I have seen women boast about their sons - and their many shenengians in the Pakistani community - I am from this community before you go slating LOL.
So yeah... they are like our son is going out with 5 women!
reminds me of those goodness gracious me episodes where the women/mothers try to out compete each other. I don't think mothers should think of this as acceptable behaviour, its not right, surely they have daughters in their house, and I am sure they wouldn't like it if there daughter had encountered a player - and got hurt. [Some players play on even when married]
Well I can somewhat assure you that if those boys before even playing with them girls, put their sisters in that so and so positiion, I am sure no such incidents would occur and also there wouldn't be such boys called, "the players."
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There are some mothers who are very proud, but most of them do not like the fact that their son are players because in future half of them don’e even receive any rishta (corect me if am wrong).
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As marriage is considered as a quick fix for every problem in ar society - so in a good faith such mothers get their sons wedlock at their earliest ... thinking ' Bacha Shadi k baad sudhar ja'ay ga ' or the wife will come and get it all sorted ...
But let me tell you - in the cases I have seen it goes like ' Chor choriii se jata hai - hayra pheyri se nahii '..
so even after marriage these players keep doing - what they are used to of doing
True Yo!!!
Same I want to ask "What are they so used to of doing"
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Ji bro you have already explained it well to me. However, nomi bro suggested me to open up this thread to get more info 
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Most of the time mothers know exactly what their sons are up to. They see them coming home late, clean their rooms and know what he is doing.
I know one woman who actually knew her sons went clubbing, drinking, dating and didnt care. In fact, she laughed about it when someone told her saying "larkay hai, larkon wali harkatein nahin karega to aur kya karengay".
If I had a son, I wouldnt tolerate him going out while I hole up my daughters to preserve my izzat. Sons are also responsible for taking care of ghar ki izzat.
Yes, I strongly agree with you Reha aapi. Larke bi apni betiyon jessay hotay hain, as a matter of fact they belong to the same family under one roof. God fobids, if anything happens because of them pooore ghar ki bi izat jatai rehti hai u get what i mean?
arouse wiht excitement, wtf?!
Honey if you think arouse as an sexual term, then I am sorry to hear that. You can go and type in google Define: arouse. I am sure you can find more definitions other than what you may be thinkign. "Mother arouse with excitement" may seem dum to you and you may think why would they even think like that. Well Personally i do not knwo, which is why i have opened up this thread. i do not know why you had to swear in this thread when others are just typing what they feel may be true. :) (No offence)
Do dads not play a role in the self-concept and character development of their sons?
Redvelvet: Well I have mostly heard from others that "amiyan jo hoti hain wohi hoti hain jo ghar ko chilati hain or ghar ki dekh baal kerti hain, abu jo hote hain wo bahir ke kaamo mai masroof hote hain. I may be wrong. but ye you can correct me if you want. But i do believe that dad's role should play in such situations like these.