Mothers not breastfeeding their kids

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Re: Mothers not breastfeeding their kids

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So first you ladies over do yourself & then come here complaining & whining about that that women in desiland do this & that. Why don’t you ladies stay at home & do what a woman should do & let your husbands do what their duties are? …… first you ladies need the feel to do this n that n then complain woman in desiland are treated as princess , their needs are catered etc…. why don’t you get your needs catered too & get people around you to take care of you after child birth ohhh but then again you ladies don’t like mil’s sil’s around youuu ….. there is just no win win situation with you ladies …. You have to complain about everything….. ohh n look now you ladies drive to & from work in labour…. Excuse me who told you to overburden yourself? …. First you want to have your careers, then want to become mazloom that we do this n that, we work, we work during pregnancy, we do household chores etc etc ….. stop with this complaining n do what you are assigned for …. Things will be a lot easier….
First you ladies over do youself n then look down upon those ladies back home who are not over doing themselves like you chicks do
I think most of the ladies don’t breastfeed coz they work n dont have time for that & also they don’t want to ruin their figures ……

& woman who say we don’t work for ayaashi & contribute to household income then that is not true….. with what you earn goes directly to the pockets of all the domestic help you take …..your maids, gardeners, sweepers, babysitters etc ….. so whats the point of you earning & giving that money away for a work you can do by ignoring everyone in your home?..your kids…husband … family etc … half of my female colleagues who earn are buying branded stuff every other day because yeaahhhhh its their money after all man cant even touch it …. This is what islam says……. while other half

Stop comparing yourselves with those whom you call “china dolls” …. Because they are not …what are you trying to prove by this comparison? …..… it seems like half of you chicks work & have careers just to prove to guys & those china dolls that looooookkkk we are multi talented … we are multi tasking ….. we can doo thisss n that …. Whats your point exactly? …. What you chicks are trying to prove? ……. They are fulfilling their womanly dities assigned to them & not overburdening themselves by doing both male & female work …… why don’t you become a china doll too … no one stopped you?

It seems like evything is fine in desiland … its just walaityland getting out of control & individualism is on the rise & the divorce rate too……

this post might be a tad off topic…but accept it or not..it is stating some truth!

They are unfortunately way too many ‘modern’ and ‘independent’ women who will not leave a chance to remind their EHSAN of working to provide for a family and who will also easily taunt the non working women for their apparently easy life. I personally find these women ridiculous ! we work and lead a career because we want to! No strong headed woman can be forced to work and provide for the household. so why brag about all the extra efforts a working woman does? The nonsense arguments make working women like poor jihadist.

And before people say I am pendu or whatever ..I am a working women , with a career that I intend to continue after marriage and possibly after kids. But hey, my point is..if it is my choice then I accept it and deal with it without degrading everyone else around me. And YES, they are down side of being a career woman when it comes to family (espc kids) … but again..it does not mean I start accusing the house wives of having it easy !

As far as the breasfeeding is concerned, I am pro BF and if I am physically fit to do it in the future, then I would do so hopefully.