Re: Mothers not breastfeeding their kids
I don’t want to experience the pain.
I just witnessed my sister go through 2 days of labor…in NO hurry to get there or experience it. If you think that’s selfish…sure.
Why is this so difficult for a man to grasp? You have three kids psyah…you should not be trivializing childbirth in such a manner.
I have come to the conclusion that men in general cannot possibly grasp this - every single post is always a way to find faults in a woman…she is selfish, she is this or she is that. She cannot possibly do anything right…she is wrong if she cannot breastfeed, if she sends her kids to school, if she works, if she isn’t perfect, etc. Islam doesn’t even critisize a woman as much as MUSLIMS do and furthermore…MUSLIM MEN do. Her choices are her own and she is recognized as an individual in Islam (when Allah swt allows a woman to work…who is a mere man to question His ruling?)…but that part is ignored because Ya Haraam…she isn’t breastfeeding for two years.
Some women can breastfeed but they don’t have the luxury to. They have to work. Call it selfish because we’ve stretched out our needs so we cannot live without a roof over our heads and food in our stomach or whatever but it is what it is.
And its perfectly okay. Ladies should and will do what they need to do according to what’s right for **their **families - not yours. If someone judges them for it - what else is new? As long as God is alright with it…I don’t see why a mere mortal feels its okay to start poking their nose in His business.