Re: Mother’s day (mother in law)
i never said dont give advice. I’m just saying it’s bad advice. Like horrible.
If such gestures are taken the wrong way by MILs, then those MILs have no interest in developing a good bond with their DILs. That doesnt mean DILs shouldnt try. No one is born close, these things must develop and all it takes is one person to start. I don’t know why I’m having to say stuff a minor understands. Are you people that thick?
As for giving the op advice, yes you all have your experiences and it seems like you’ve all made some pretty bad decisions (not just this thread) but that doesnt mean you people give advice to the OP based on your own mistakes. That’s what seems to be the trend here.
So please get a grip, instead of asking for more details, you oh so wise ladies were like ‘nah dont send it. it MAY be taken bad’.
That’s cowardice.
what makes you think we have made bad decisions? Everyone has been through different experiences. your advise may seem very poor to those who have had different experience.