What happened to our society. Our culture where parents and elders were considered the final authority in homes are being left in Old age homes 
Are we going forward to the western idea where responsibility is fulfilled just by wishing mother on a particular day and sending her gifts?
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Na janay wo kaun log hain jo apni jannat sy khud dor chaly jaty hain :( Allah pak aisy logon ko nahi bakhshaingy.
mainy bhi yeh suna hy or note bhi kiya hy kay kuch log shadi ky baad apny parents ki parwah karna chor dety hain just becoz their wives said or wo larkian kesi hain jo yeh sab karny ko kehti hain, bohat afsoos hota hy yeh sun kar.:(
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I don't think if the husband love and respect his parents, the wife can compel him to go to this extent. On the other side, those girls are very much concerned about their own parents.
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agreed
this is just husband's fault if he forgets his parents after marriage.
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My God...
"Bhao nae kaha aur la ker chor diya". Its really very painful to listen it. How can any daughter-in-law do this?
Parents-in-law are daughter-in law's responsibility. Daughter-in-law should be more concerned about her parents-in law than her own parents since her own parents are her bother and bhabhi's responsibility.
MAY ALLAH ALWAYS GUIDE US AND KEEP US ON THE STRAIGHT PATH..AMEEN
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Now many women also started arguing that its not their religious responsibility to take care of in-laws.. koi pooche khuda ki bandiyon ‘which religion teaches you all this selfishness’ 
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right
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Its girls' social responsibility to take care of their parents-in-law.
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I’m so tempted to reply in this thread
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go ahead..
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It is the Son's responsibility.Period.
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But the daughter in law should have enough zarf to mtivate and help her husband to fulfill his responsibility.
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But the daughter in law should have enough zarf to mtivate and help her husband to fulfill his responsibility.
That's another story.But responsibility Son ke he hai.
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Agree that responsibility lies on son.. but wife affects his decisions. Above all its not only the problem created by daughter in laws.. In some cases aged parents are treated as a liability no one from the children ready to accept on the pretext that the other brother / sister is responsible for them. In such cases, the aged parents are treated like rolling stock.
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Well,some of it has to do with parents trabiyat maybe.(just maybe dont kill me for saying this:emmy: )
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tabiyat or tarbiyat?
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tabiyat or tarbiyat?
Tarbiyat
'cuz tabiyat tou waqt ke sath badalti hai n ppl dont hv control over it as much.
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But I've seen people who were very good to their parents. taken care for their all needs.. give good education to their own children. but their children turned out to be careless about parents. The point is your parents are also besides you when you need them, but children don't think about the parents lonliness when they need them :(
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But I've seen people who were very good to their parents. taken care for their all needs.. give good education to their own children. but their children turned out to be careless about parents. The point is your parents are also besides you when you need them, but children don't think about the parents lonliness when they need them :(
Whoever went wrong will be different in each case....Either ways ....aaj kul ke parents should not rely on their children.Children karain tou well and good but parents shouldnt rely on them.Parents should save up for after their retirement & should have a backup in case children dont take care of them.
'cuz its a dog eat dog world out there now.
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Its always easier than said LP. Meri Ammi kehti hain ' Maa baap ka dil kia hota hai, tum log kia jano.. jab khud Maa baap bano ge tab pata chale ga'. Parents only plan for children.. They wanted to give best to their children. Its very difficult you wanted to give best to your children and plan for your future too.
PS: Technically I agree with you.