Re: Mother tongue.
Teaching your kids urdu is all fine. But if Punjabi is the language of your ancestors spoken from generations, don’t you think it is sad that this language ends with you. Language plays an important part in cultural development also IMO. If you are abroad, I understand that U may be trying to teach your kids atleast some pakistani lang no matter which one. But if you are living in Punjab, it is a totally different thing altogether to give up on your regional language and adopt a different one. Can’t you teach the kids both languages? I am not criticizing your choices here just wondering about the reasoning behind your decision.