Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.
Im glad to see the enthusiasm. 
The fact is, kids dont care for their own parents and then think ghar ki bahu is there for that purpose. She isnt.
Its pretty simple actually…Islam emphasizes parents and their relationship with their children…not their bahu.
I’d like to see you prove your viewpoints with Islam…and not Pakistani-Masala mentality.
You think the joint family system is ordained by Islam? Lets see it.