Mother or Wife? Pick One.

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Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.

Supplementary question:

Can wife stop husband from taking care of parents at old age? Lets say taking them to Dr, stopping at their place for 20/30 min before coming to home every day? I can tell you most of the wives will have problem with that too. Just like wife has a right to have her own place, isn’t it FARZ on husband to take care of his parents.

PS: I am in no way denying right of separate living of wife. I am just advancing the discussion. I think we all know right of separate housing is given to Girl by religion too.

@Reha

Wife doesnt have to show a dire need…she doesnt have to have a need at all…its her HAQQ. And if her husband can afford it, its between her and her husband. Who are these 3rd parties in the middle?

Half the stories in Life1 are all inlaw related because they dont know their limits…this is a prime example of lack of consideration.

How can someone trample over a woman’s right to live on her own with her husband? There is a limit to family involvment in husband-wife relationship.

Inlaws can come and go as much as they want but some distance is important to maintain sanity.

As for taking care of them in their old age. Why do people forget about their own kids? Allah swt never made it the bahu’s responsibility to care for her inlaws…the inlaws have their own children that are hatte katte.

Ive seen so many families where the nand will sit around and expect her bhabi to take care of her parents like she is now relieved of that responsibility. The fact is, she isnt.

The responsibility of taking care of the inlaws lies SOLELY on their children…not their bahu’s. Maybe if everyone did their part…it wouldnt be so hard when bahu wants to move out.