Mother or Wife? Pick One.

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Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.

@Reha

Every woman has the right to live her life the way she dreamt. Shaadi se pehle maa baap ki suno, shaadi ke baad saas susar ki suno…lol. The funny thing is, Islam entitles a woman to live on her own if she chooses. 90% of the time…these saas’s dont live with their own inlaws…but they want their kids living with them.

There should be no reason to choose one…the son who was raised by the saas…should have been given the proper upbringing and not made into a mama’s boy. Usually, its this “mera pyara sa bacha” attitude that ruins things for both parties later on.

You can pick one…the woman who raised you or the woman who will be the mother of your children…but it wont be easy and no one will be happy. There is no dire need to see grandparents on a daily basis…as far as I know…no child has died from lack of exposure to grandparents. It doesnt have to be serious or extreme.

People can strike a balance if they choose to. You can see grandparents on the weekends or even a few times a week and develop a comfortable yet respectful relationship that way.

Why not just understand its a woman’s God given right to live her life the way she chooses?

excellent point!