Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.
No silly - Quote is:
Woman marry men hoping they will change, and then never do!
Men marry women hoping they’ll never change and they always do!
lol as Yoda said : “I sense a lot of anger in you, young sky walker” 
Well the answer kinda goes back 1400 years. This little religion called Islam told “man” to take care of his family (wife n kids). Also told “woman” to make the house “a home” for the man and their kids (as her main priority - among other things).
M too lazy to write out all things - but if you follow the logic through, its kinda man’s job to get a house and gives it to the woman. Now man’s parents are already there (with the man) - so they stay put. Woman’s parents should stay with their own son.
What if woman’s parents don’t have a son? Well they should definately move in with her (married) daughter.
Why don’t they? Thats just logistics, feasibility and emotions complicating the situation (Mind you - exactly the same factors are responsible for guy’s parents to be there).
Kinda obvious conclusion but I think I should re-iterate for our younger members: Religion has nothing to do with “logistics, feasibility and emotions” that determine if any of the parents should live with husband and wife. Religion only obligates the Man & Woman to take care of parents, according to sitauation - Its individual situation that determines if (either) parents should move in, require financial assistance and so on!
Remember Yoda (from star wars also said): “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering”
leaving marrige is Worst word in Quran!
You do know there is a way to end all divorces! Not kidding!
“#1 reason for all divorces (ever!) is … MARRIGE!”
you are a smart kid. You can put two and two together .. how NOT to have a divorces in this world
Edit: k I don’t know if you are smart so M gonna say it lol : “No marrige, no divorce”