Mother or Wife? Pick One.

[hareem01]

Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.

@Syraa

Maham, I don’t understand why you label living seperately from in laws as something that’s “westernised”…it’s something that’s happened in my family for generations not because they tried to be “westernised” but because, like it or not, it is a right of a woman in Islam.

Deeba’s made some very good points and linked you to some good sites but you’ve failed to acknowledge them just because they don’t agree with your view point. That’s rather childish…if you want to live in a joint family system later on in life you might want to change that trait of yours.

What I fail to understand is why you’ve taken it upon yourself to have an issue with what other women do once they get married, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again…it has nothing to do with you. No one here is slating you for wanting to live with your in laws so you shouldn’t be slating others for wanting to live seperately. End of.

I don’t know …may be it’s the result of watching too much Zee tv and starplus.