Mother or Wife? Pick One.

[Maham]

Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.

@Decent_6Chora

Girls, why is it hard to swallow if someone (ok Maham) want to live with her in-laws peacefully or at least she want to give it a try? there is nothing wrong in it. If someone is trying something out of the way, she should be appreciated instead of “oh you will change your mind” chants

I think it greatly depends on the relationship and person. Someone should not get into the relationship with prejudice in mind.

and for Maham, you can go ahead and try living with your in-law and make your hubby happy and take some duaeen but rest assured, if you ever need, Islam has allowed you to have your own home.

my 2 cents

Lolz. Thanks. But i don’t think my inlaws home cant be mine, it def wl be if all goes well. InshaAllah. AND just to clear, i would want to live in with the inlaws to just please my husband, ofcourse i had hope that had make him happy, but i just happen to believe in the joint family system and i see alot of good in it :).