Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.
Maham asked for religious references as she (bizarrely) doesn’t believe that Islam discourages the joint family setup..
Yes, there are ppl in the world who don’t have food to eat but I can’t see why that means we shouldn’t have a valid discussion on the subject of living with inlaws, esp when it seems to be the cause of so many marital problems and disagreements in desi families.. Something that might not be deemed ‘important’ enough to talk about by you isn’t necessarily no big deal to the next girl..