Mother or Wife? Pick One.

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Re: Mother or Wife? Pick One.

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Supplementary question:

Can wife stop husband from taking care of parents at old age? Lets say taking them to Dr, stopping at their place for 20/30 min before coming to home every day? I can tell you most of the wives will have problem with that too. Just like wife has a right to have her own place, isn’t it FARZ on husband to take care of his parents.

PS: I am in no way denying right of separate living of wife. I am just advancing the discussion. I think we all know right of separate housing is given to Girl by religion too.

No wife CAN NOT & SHOULD NOT stop her husband from taking care of his parents. It is FARZ on a son / daughter to take care of his/her parents. It’s a farz put on son/daughter by Allah and who so ever does not fulfil this farz will pay back for it…No matter how much a daughter or a son do khidmaat of their parents it’s never enough.

and no matter how many siblings one has , you are responsible for your own deeds. They take care of parents or not it’s their amaal but having a sibling does not reduce your duty towards parents.

The BEST is to request wife for support when it comes to parents. Like I said forget that they are parents in law out of insaaniyat too we can do many things. But that insaaniyat should be reciprocated and parents in law should also treat DIL like a daughter otherwise things can NEVER work out…this is just my opinion.