I need ur help badly…i m a silent reader and visiting this site for 2 years now…meray sath do maslay hein__ pehla yeh k mein sari post urdu mein likhon gi kyun k meri english gud nahin so jin ko parhnay mein mushkil ho un se advance mein sorry LEKIN aap english mein reply kr saktay hein woh samaj a jaye gi .
mein yahan apni saas aur un k bf ki story nahin sunanay lagi…mujhe bas apnay liye help chahiyea…k koi banda mujhe yeh samjha de k saas aik chor das bfs rakhay mujhe is se concern nahin hona chahiyea.
Meri shadi ko nearly 3 years honay walay hein … aur 3 saal se ghar mein yeh drama dekhe rahi hn aur pata nahin us se kitna time pehlay ka chal raha hai…saas ki age 50 se oper hi ho gi aur rishtay mein khala bhi hein aur hum log aik hi ghar mein rehtay hein aur taqreeban har roz yeh drama dekhna parta hai…father in law night job kartay hein aur saas sahiba puri raat lagta hai k kisi call centre mein job karti hein kyun k woh bf k sath puri raat phone peh hoti hein …bf dosri country mein rehta hai lekin har do teen maheenay bad hafta do k liye ata hai __ door k rishtedar hein is liye ghar mein ana jana nahin so saas un se bahir ja k milti hein ..jaisay hi uncle sham ko job k liye niklay woh b ban sanwar k un k janay k bad ghar se nikal jati hein aur raat 1_2 bjay tak ati hein!
yeh sab khuch hota dekhna woh b apni ankhon se pehlay b meray liye takleef de tha lekin ab zyada is liye hai k is saal MashAllah se woh hajj b kar ayi hein lekin khuch samaj nai ata k kaisa hajj tha k wahi same routine hai ab bhi…
ghar mein meray husband sab khuch janaty hein__hate b kartay hein yeh bat lekin baqol un k woh bari hein samajdaar hein to woh un se kya
kahein aur yeh k un ko un k hal peh chor do…
choti nand hai woh b sab khuch janti hai aur khud aunty ko kai dafa un k bf k pass drop b kar k ati hai lekin ussay yeh nai pata k mein b sab khuch janti hn so us se meri kabhi aisi bat nai hui bas husband se hoti hai balkay hoti thi __kyun k ab woh b chir jatay hein agar koi bat kron sas k baray mein to
Meray sath yeh masla hai k aik sath hum log reh rahay hein … jis din woh bf se mil k ayin us k bad nxt few days tak mera un se bat karnay ko ya un ki shakal dekhnay ko dil nahin karta __ajeeb se nafrat mehsoos hoti hai…ahista ahista khud ko normal karti hn to phr koi new chize ya drama kar deti hein…ghar ka ajeeb sa mahol hai __ sab aik dosray se hafa hafa aur door door
abhi bhi aunty phone peh hein aur mujhe itni nafrat mehsoos ho rahi hai un se__ unhein lagta hai k mujhe khuch pata nai aur waisay bhi shakal se mein intehayi bewaqoof lagti hon unhein (baqol un k )…lekin mera dil karta hai k kisi din cheekh cheekh k bata don unhein k mein sab janti hon !
koi is malay ka hal bata sakta hai ya mujhe koi aik do example de k samjha de k duniya mein is se b worse ho raha hai ya khuch aisa k mein is din raat ki takleef se nikal aaon aur un ki harkaton ka notice lena chor don
OP has been married for 3 years and lives with her inlaws (also her aunt/uncle).
Her MIL spends her evenings (when FIL is at work) talking on the phone with a distant rishtedaar known by her own son and daughter to be her boyfriend.
Sometimes she even meets with him.
OP gets very upset and has a hard time living with MIL knowing all this is going on.
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My recommendation would be to move out before you have children, so they will not be influenced by your MIL's behavior regularly, nor will they be affected by the anger and frustration you feel.
mera saggastion hai kai aap eik privait invastaligator ko hire kar lai . phir un sai photos kheechwana aap kai saas aur un ka fraan ka saath mai. phir aap saas ko batana kai abhi hum kabhi bhi jarro pota ya khana pakana nahi kar ho gi warna yeh photo kai baray mai sab ko pata par jai ga
If you're 100000% sure of what you're saying, then you need to do..........nothing.
Absolutely nothing.
Ye apka mamla nahin hai aur agar aap beech mein pareen to aap hi ko bhugatna hoga agay.
Is maslay ka koi hall nahin hai...at least koi aisa hall nahin hai jo apke bass mein ho.
Reha, dunyaa meN aisaa koii masalah yaa beemaarii nahiiN jiskaa koii Hal/'ilaaj na ho...bas use aapko talaash karnaa hotaa hai...
...mausoofah ke shauhar ko is baat kaa 'ilm hai lihaaza unko hii yeh chaahiye k iskaa koii Hal talaash kareN...bahoo ko beech meN paRne kii koii zaroorat nahiiN...yeh mo'aamila Khaatoon, unke shauhar aur unke beTe ke beech hai...
...is darmiyaan, OP ko chaahiye k apne shauhar se israar kareN k vo unheN kisii aur rihaaish meN le jaayeN kiuN k unkii vaalidah ke kartoot dekhnaa aur jhelnaa unke liye mushkil hii nahiiN bal k naa_mumkin hai.
This is a troll if there ever was one. Am I the only one finding this story impossible to believe. The main story could be true but the reactions of the husband son daughter are all illogical. I don't think all three of them can resolve to do nothing, unless they already tried and it was of no use. And mil is brazen enough to continue even after being confronted by her family. Hence proved, troll.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah cant help laughing. U should ignore and mind ur bussines. Set a goal n go 4 it and dont waste ur time over such rubish. Sas tou Sas hoti ha chahay Bf vali ho ya husbnd vali.
