completely agree with diamond!!! there are some seriously crazy folks out there who needs LOTS AND LOTS of counseling. try to see what the girl wants?? does she even want to be married to that? if she doesn’t then I think you have better chances to help her… but if she wants to stay then we all will have to help you come up with some creative ways to slap some manhood in that husband of hers! praying that it will work!