Most EVILLLL MIL EVER!!! I feel horrible for the poor girl!!!!

[ria1328]

@redvelvet

Could you trap or catch the in-laws somehow? Maybe you can ask them questions about her. And then record their answers? Obviously you don’t want to record answers where they say that she’s crazy. But if you can manage to record answers where the in-laws say something like “Oh we beat her up and don’t care. She doesn’t deserve food. We only give her food one time a week. She doesn’t need to leave the house. We keep her locked up all the time and that’s how it should be.” Comments like THESE will make for a much stronger case.

******Also, keep in mind that just because you help her…or just because some social worker tries to get her out of there…doesn’t mean that she will willingly go with them. She might have been brainwashed by her in-laws into thinking that she should always stay with them. She might even feel that she won’t be able to financially support her kids on her own and that she should just stay married to him and endure his cowardice and their abuse.

In other words, getting her out of there, is going to involve MORE than just cunning and reporting to the right authorities…you may have to break down some psychological/emotional barriers.

The thing is, they don’t say these things. THey make themselves out to be the good ones, and the loving people who have taken this poor girl in and all that. SO we can’t really catch them. My mom has been putting up with their greed and selfishness since we had to live there for a couple of months so she can see right through them.

I know she’ll have some scars but she really is a strong girl. Last time we talked she had just had her son and basically ignored everything around her. She really is a strong girl, but I just want her to be able to keep her son and visit her family. I feel like a family with 2 divorces with another one probably coming soon, should speak volumes.