so what happens?
im getting married in july and im such a shy person what would i do? will they come in to the room as in the family??
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Oh My God i hope not! lol Thats embarrassing! but yea, what are we suppsoed to do? and How early do i have to wake up, cause I dont want to wake up early, Im not a morning person!
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lol same here i hate waking up early and especially after a long day i would have to put an alarm on to wake up!
but how early are we meant to be up???
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on my wedding i stayed in hotel so i had no tension of waking up early..... hum log baut aram se lunch time pe gai..... had lunch wth thm n thn 2 parlour 4 valima..... it was realy comfortable 4 me
chill . no one can predict what will happen , every family is different . some may have rasams and traditions other may not.
the day will go as it is meant to go.
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Lol...You girls are funny!!!Cant blame you girls for being nervous though!!! I am not married yet but how about getting up for fajar prayers and then going out for breakfast or to the kitchen???Let the poor guy sleep for few more hours.
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well we are planning to stay at a hotel. so how does that work. dont we have to check out (the valima night will be at his house) by a noon or something. and what about the breakfast that the girls family is suppose to bring the next day?
i m a morning person (give me coffee n i will be up n runing 6am) but he is NOT. :)
well we are planning to stay at a hotel. so how does that work. dont we have to check out (the valima night will be at his house) by a noon or something. and what about the breakfast that the girls family is suppose to bring the next day?
i m a morning person (give me coffee n i will be up n runing 6am) but he is NOT. :)
when we stayed in hotel v had complementary breakfast there..... n it was already planed tht instead of bringing breakfast my family will bring lunch since we were staying in hotel n after valima i wnt bck 2 my parents home n next day my huby along wth my in laws came (whts tht called i thnk "muklawa")
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^ oh ok. i like the idea of having lunch together instead of breakfest. i will bring this up to our families...but his family is very traditional so they might not like it...
i dont knw what "muklawa" is ???
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actualy in our family after valima bride goes bck 2 her parents home n next day groom along wth his family comes to take bride this is muklawa as i know actualy its the 1st visit of bride to her mayka after wedding
Oh My God i hope not! lol Thats embarrassing! but yea, what are we suppsoed to do? and How early do i have to wake up, cause I dont want to wake up early, Im not a morning person!
subha jaldi uthnay ka masla nhi hai larkiyooo.... i've hear alot of stooooped stuff abt this, and i seriously wish none of it is true :(
mamaa :((
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i am getting married in march...i also have the same tension..but i wont be saying at a hotel..though i want to..but cant as the famly is settled in karachi..and i will be going to my hubbys place...God i do want to wakeup lateeeee
I just got married over the holidays....we also stayed in a hotel the first night and I booked the hotel for an extra night as well....so we woke up in the morning and went down for breakfast, after that we went up to get ready and then made our way to my parents house....had a nice family lunch, then I dropped my wife at her parents house, went back home...chilled with my friends for a bit...then went back to pick her up, spent an hour or so at her parents, then she and I went out for a quiet dinner just her and me...it was fun....
We stayed in the hotel again for the 2nd night...then the following morning we went to my house....and that night we had our valima..
Staying at the hotel for 2 nights was cool...we got our own space and were able to relax, hang out....
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girls i had the same issue b4 my wedding but
automatically u wake up early
ur nand or brother in law's wife will come first to serve u breakfast n thn everybdy will b busy in walima arrangement
waisay my sisters came as in our family girl's parents send NASHTA (BREAKFAST)
i ws almost ready for parlour
my walima ws evening ...
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For those who will be staying at their in laws place, in laws will not usually wake you up until the bride's family brings the breakfast. Just tell your family to bring breakfast at 11.
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11 is early for me :( lol I prefer Lunch!
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lol funny thread
we will cross the bride when we come to it
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I guess those couples who are lucky enough to go to a hotel it's much easier and tension free..
Wow! I am just imagining how it would be to go straight to his house after rukhsati.
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Well I think just to save yourself of any embarassment , I would say both hubby and wife wake up around 9ish, get ready and spend some time with the rest of the family members …
I know its tiring but still … I remember I woke up , got ready and had breakfast with my FIL and MIL … and then some family members came and introduced themselves to me … and by 10:00 my mamo arrived with nasta .. and i had nasta yet again 
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and totally gelled with the family … and then went off to the salon for the valima .
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We stayed at a hotel, PILs were also there but they didnt wake us up. MIL tried to wake up but she was embarassed. My parents came around noonish for the breakfast thing and both sets woke us up together. Showered, got ready etc and both families went out for lunch (so no breakfast). It totally depends on the family you are marrying into and whether you are staying at a hotel or at home.