Re: more randomness from the mother IN LAW.,
she sends sms messages to all and sundry while you are right there in the house…what does that tell you? the fact that you two don’t communicate is not her fault alone. we never get to read about your efforts to bridge the obvious gap that you and your MIL share. all we read about are her transgressions and nastiness. don’t you agree that you are equally at fault if not more?
you seem to have the whole “two-faced” routine down pat. why is there even a need for you to behave like a a hypocrite? this is your home…you should be able to be yourself and not put on a show. I would advise that you start working on taking walls down and establishing genuine relationships with the inlaws so that you can be yourself…