more randomness from the mother IN LAW.,

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Re: more randomness from the mother IN LAW.,

@nadz123

well guess what.

today she sent hubbs a text message, a long one, all drama, how me and him are always naraaz with her, we dont talk to her, didnt anyone tell him she had a massive attack of some sort the other day how ill she is et cetc …( she didnthave any attack it was her stomach, she takes some tablets steriods, and they give her bad heartburn, but she calls it an attack fine, but it made it all so ever dramamtic to him), and she took 2 aspirins that dat and was fine 5mins later. anyhowshe made a big fuss how ill she still is and we are careless.shes always using my name in messages sent to him. if she has a issue with me, talk to me…

anyway all i said to husband was, whenever i sent u a long guilt-inducing sms you told me i was just doing drama` and how he doesnt like bollywood style drama in his life.

so i asked him the sms his mum just sent wasnt drama??

Here a sincere piece of advise for you. Human in general (and husbands/wife in particular) do not like to listen words “drama” “dramay baz” “acting” “fake” “making big fuss” etc for their parents (specially mother) from SO. Even if you are right, your choice of words is not. Words used in conversation/discussion are as important as the context its-self.

Secondly, if your MIL is feeling (rightly or wrongly) that your husband does not care about her, its your husband’s DUTY to make her feel better/secure just like its his duty to make you feel secure.

and Finally, he can say things to you that he can not say to his mom because dynamics of both relationships are different. I am sure you can say things to him that you can say to your father. Cant you?