Re: Morals and \ethics of Pakistanis living abroad
It’s too freakin hot over here in karachi, so lets just leave the parks out of it, ok. And the only public places that are air conditioned are the malls (i guess/ to the best of my knowledge) and last time i went to one, i’m pretty sure it wasn’t just me out there, there were hundreds of other people there too besides me. So chill people. Relax
@ OP, I don’t think you had any intention of hurting anyone through this thread, but remember judging someone or generalising anyone or anything, even with or without knowing them personally, is hurtful nonetheless. People have feelings not only in Pakistan but its a common ailment that affects everyone one irrespective of color, cast, creed, borders and even their level of piety. Yes a sinner has feelings too and his/ her sins does not give other people a license to judge them and thrash their character publicly. If anyone doesn’t like a certain aspect of someone’s behaviour, advise them privately, in a nice/ gentle manner, and one should never take a holier-than-thou attitude with them or use a condescending tone or even pity them, in most cases this kinf of attitude often leads such a person to a path of rebellion and even more sinning.
As human beings and esp as muslims (we are rather proud of this part of our identity aren’t we) we should know and act better. We should strive to follow our deen in every aspect and in this case too. I think everyone must have have heard about these hadiths : A muslim is the one who avoids harming muslims with his tongue and hands and this one: He who hides the faults of a muslim,Allah will hide his faults in the world and will forgive his faults on judgement day . Enough said.
So now that we all acha bachas:halo: have decided to leave the judgement part to the Creator, lets get to business. @geminifromkhi and @us1415 since both of you are computer graduates so help me out. I need to learn Matlab, which books would you recommend someone with a medical background. I remember basic arithmetic and basic algebra andthats it. Sowhat do i need to know to learn Matlab.
P.S. Kindly reply in business and career section. Please and thankyou:flower1:
?? It’s an anonymous forum..no one is calling out anyone by name or judging them or embarassing them publically. If someone gets hurt by generic comments and stories on an anonymous forum they must have tremendous guilt and its an issue only they can come to terms with. How are we going to fix our society and people if we don’t discuss the issues that our becoming prevelant in society?
Let’s keep nationalism and religious elitism out of it–those prevent self reflection and lead to downfall of people. I think we all want best for our Pakistani society whether they are in Pakistan or in the West, even when we criticize them.