Morals and \ethics of Pakistanis living abroad

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Re: Morals and \ethics of Pakistanis living abroad

@MustafaQuraishi

Drinking, sleeping around has nothing to do with the west. You have the same opportunities in Pakistan too. I have spent most of my life in hostel or living alone and believe me, I wasn’t even a bit surprised or had a cultural shock when i came to Canada from Lahore.

It all comes down to how a person is and how much does he know about his limits, how much control does he has on himself because of his moral/religious values and how much he is a push over by his friends. So judging a guy that he is a pakistani and has lived in Lahore/Karachi/Islamabad throughout his life doesn’t mean he would have slept around or been drunk. If he is a guy of weak moral values, then believe me he would have.

OK so I have another question. How many girls are doing it in Pakistan? Too few I would say. Yes they might be out of control, might be wearing tight fitted clothes, might be going out with boys- but drinking and sleeping around, I don’t think so.

whereas judging by what you guys wrote on this forum, I guess girl sleeping around is so common and sort of understandable that a lot of you guys say oh I dont mind what her past was.

Remember boys will be boys. Doesnt mean boys have the liberty to do whatever they want, but thats a harsh reality. But reading such stuff about girls really gave me a shock.

And again, you guys are much more naik, pious and everything than I am, dont get defensive while answering my question, just like I dont get defensive when you guys tell me of immoral activities going on in Pakistan.