Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?

[DMLove]

Re: Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?

@BellaShabba

Out of curiousity how was her visa even approved if he doesnt work or anything?! Doesnt he have to prove he can support her so she can come over or maybe jts different here in the UK.

If both are burying their head in the sand and dont want to take the first move there isnt much you can do or say then. Lets hope when she does move over you all as a family support her to become independent and allow her to live a better life. Your inlaws may not be bad people but they are to blame for forcing this relationship knowing their son isnt really mature.

They live in Canada. The person doing the sponsoring doesn’t have to have any income source.

Yes, they are to blame for the situation the couple is in. My mil thought getting him married to a girl back home would straighten him out, but it hasn’t done anything to change any of his behavior. At the same time, her parents are not completely blameless either. They just said yes as soon as my mil approached them without finding anything out about my Bil. I know they are old family friends, but that does not mean anything. They should have asked people about him, found out about his education and work before saying yes.