Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?

[Muzna]

Re: Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?

@BellaShabba

Out of curiousity how was her visa even approved if he doesnt work or anything?! Doesnt he have to prove he can support her so she can come over or maybe jts different here in the UK.

If both are burying their head in the sand and dont want to take the first move there isnt much you can do or say then. Lets hope when she does move over you all as a family support her to become independent and allow her to live a better life. Your inlaws may not be bad people but they are to blame for forcing this relationship knowing their son isnt really mature.

I’m guessing here because I don’t know the process for the US but in Canada you don’t have to have a job to sponsor your spouse. Apparently there is some law that prevents “zalim zamana” from keeping spouses apart.

As for the inlaws helping her out…I suspect they’re actually hoping that their son will “automagically” fall in love with his na’ee nawaili dulhan when she arrives and some sort of divine intervention will help to turn his heart in her favour. Their last resort will likely be guilt…zamana kya kahay ga? Haye hamari izzat, etc., etc.