Re: Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?
I think you should consider ConfusedMe’s post seriously. She is a living example for you to see what will happen if you don’t. At least where she is, she has a support system. Here, she will have no one.
I feel for your BIL’s wife…really. And I hope that she is a very strong, independent and educated woman who can not just face what’s coming her way…but takes your in-law’s to the cleaners for it.