Muzna
November 11, 2015, 5:08pm
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Re: Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?
I just hope that by sharing my story, I am saving some other girl from the hell i went thru.
I wouldn’t have called things of immediately, but I would have told everyone that I needed more time to decide. I would have talked to him, also gone and visited my in-laws in the country where they live with my parents. And if I still had gotten married to him, I wouldn’t have gotten pregnant thats for sure! I love my daughter and I don’t think I would have made it thru this hell without her, I love her more then anything and she is no doubt the best thing that has ever happened to me. But I which she had a father. A good man, not just a father. But she doesn’t and that the only thing that bugs me. That I wasn’t able to give her a god father.
It was not in your hands to know what kind of father he would be so please don’t carry that with you.