Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?

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Re: Moral/ethical dilemma - what should I do?

@Muzna

Thank you so very much for sharing your story so openly here. It takes courage to do that. May Allah swt give you courage to deal with the challenges you face and peace to accept the path that He has chosen for you, ameen.

I would like to know…would an anonymous email have worked for you? Would you have backed out or would you have put more trust and confidence in the word of your inlaws and relatives?

I just hope that by sharing my story, I am saving some other girl from the hell i went thru.

I wouldn’t have called things of immediately, but I would have told everyone that I needed more time to decide. I would have talked to him, also gone and visited my in-laws in the country where they live with my parents. And if I still had gotten married to him, I wouldn’t have gotten pregnant thats for sure! I love my daughter and I don’t think I would have made it thru this hell without her, I love her more then anything and she is no doubt the best thing that has ever happened to me. But I which she had a father. A good man, not just a father. But she doesn’t and that the only thing that bugs me. That I wasn’t able to give her a god father.