Re: Moral Dilemma
WitchDr - I cannot have any more children. I told that to my second husband first off as soon as I knew he was interested in me. He does not have children and I have two from my first marriage. After my first husband died, I had cancer the result of which being my inability to carry to term a child.
This was a serious issue for him, as he cannot have children of his own now by marrying me. It also was serious enough that we almost didn't get married. But I had to be honest about it because this issue is large enough to not lie about. Men want children as much as women do and they want children of their own. There is a potential she may not be able to have children and that is serious.
Lying about this issue is not acceptable, no matter how badly one wants to get married.
We aren't talking about her saying she likes the color purple when she really likes blue, we are talking about a condition that could impact her married life drastically and also the man she marries.