Money makes an ideal man

Money makes an ideal man


http://www.dailytimes.com.pk/default.asp?page=2006\09\02\story_2-9-2006_pg9_2

Women regard healthy finances as more important than good looks in a man, according to a survey.

Almost half (45 percent) said a healthy bank balance is more significant than physical attractiveness in a potential partner, according to National Savings & Investments’ (NS&I) latest quarterly savings survey.

Just 22 percent of men, however, rate finances above looks in women.

A salary of almost 50,000 pounds a year is demonstrative of male financial success, according to women.

Men need to earn at least 49,247 pounds a year before women consider them successful and wealthy, the study found. And more than one in 10 women would only consider a partner to be successful if they are earning 100,000 pounds or more.

Men were found to have lower expectations, saying they would deem women earning 42,147 pounds to be successful and wealthy.

On the savings front, women expect their men to have an average of 24,281 pounds in savings — compared to 20,335 pounds in reality — while men are happy with savings of 15,143 pounds among women, much in line with an actual average of 14,167 pounds.s. Dax Harkins, senior savings strategist at NS&I, said: “Finances form a very important part of relationship dynamics and this is reflected in the expectations people have, both in terms of salary and savings levels. Maybe people do believe they can buy happiness after all.”

Despite marked differences in expectations, 64 percent of those questioned agree that financial security is important to the success of a relationship.

Kate Maycock, from Relate, said: “Feeling financially insecure will put some strains on a relationship.

The research also found that regular savings are on the increase. reuters

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I can't deny the similarity of the saying, I have repeated many time in this forum "If you want to test a men, test him by an attractive woman, if you want to test a woman, test her by a wealthy man"

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Bloody gold diggers.

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^ only 45% of them......................

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Financial security IS important in a relationship, unless u wanna be living hand to mouth, paycheck to paycheck

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I dont see anything wrong with this, men are naturally attracted to good looking women whereas women are naturally attracted to man with $$. Women are made that way, even in Quran good men are promised hoors and women materialistics things (that just prooves that it comes to us naturally).

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^ what a generalisation! I have never ever EVER cared about materialistic posessions, and would never even take this into consideration when choosing a future spouse.

Thankfully Allah swt has given me enough akal to be able to survive it alone, why should I care about how much money he has … it’s his money, he’s the one that’s earned it.

And while I’m at it, please give men more credit :flower1: Real men aren’t as superficial as you guys make out :flower1:

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Women get a bad rep at times...if money is mentioned then they must be a goldidgger...every woman enjoys money being spent on them...doesnt neccesarily make them a golddigger...

Taking your girl to the Maldives is going to win more points than taking her to a beach in Brighton...doesnt make her bad...what human being doesnt enjoy being spoilt...

Gold-diggers exist and they are very easy to spot...you dont need to be a genius to know whos after money...but dont get that twisted with women who enjoy being spoilt...

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Money would make an ideal anything....man women animal :p

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Fact of life: Men like beautiful women; Women like rich men.

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Exactly!

Just coz we like having our guy buy us gifts and treat us once ina while doesnt make one a golddigger. Men are supposed to be the providoers, at least in Islam, so it definitely makes sense that he should have good finances. Also, i love how the same ppl who say women shouldn't work because he' earns enough for both of them, but then call the women who want a wealthy man golddiggers..anyone else see hte hypocrisy and stupidity here?

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I still fall bit short of being financially successful.

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:slight_smile:

im impressed

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Looking at a man just because of his bank balance just shows how narrow-minded women are.

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i cant believe the women on this forum are justifying their materliastic attitudes

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blahblahblhbalbhalhba :o

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then why do we see rich old men with 20 ish years old girls in their arms? is it only a girl's fault (she is selfish, hoe, etc) ? is the guy too dumb to not realize this? Men love good looking women equally the same, if not more, way women love money.

Sadi Sobi- im not nut head, i too know what i am capable of. I'm educated, and financially independent. I have a brain too and know when and how to use it but unlike you i do not flaunt my intelligence on community forums.

Most women do not go for money alone, like men, we, too think about pros and cons. when considering a future partner- the main criteria is often the character and then follows education, status ($), and family.

But then again, i don't think it is any wrong to go for a guy who is financially secure than for man who is struggling.

It really not a rocket science, if men can consider a good looking women over an average girl then why is so wrong with women (to keep their and their' future kids best interest in mind) picking a financially stable man over justa n average joe. if he is good looking thats a plus, most women can live without that fact whereas men cant.

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Goood post, but don't bother arguing, guys will think its perfectly alright for a man to be with a young girl, but any woman who looks at the finances of a man, is a greedy golddigger..Gotta love how ppl can be..:BiB:

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There is nothing wrong with some old guy/girl marrying someone younger, if there is let me know.

As I said, narrow-mindedness justifies an evil of selfishness. Either you agree that gold diggers are bad or you do not. There is no middle ground. Money is nothing heck Rick James was rich. What if the person you marry for money looses the money, what then you will go for the next big fat wallet. Some way to live a life…

There is evil in judging someone on his/her wallet and bank balance…you have to see reason why someone is struggling and why someone has what he/she has. Only than you will understand what's wrong and what's right.

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this thread reminded me of a song
"GIRLSS DONT LIKE BOYS, GIRLS LIKE CARS AND MONEY" ...la la la