Moms 2012- 2013

[somegroovychick]

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@mirage

^ I think it is BEST to not know, honestly. I never asked any doctor about the gender. Each of them was adamant themselves to tell :hinna: I might sound out dated here, but if I were in your place, I would happily have taken it the way it is. Waise bhi, the ultra sound is basically to check the smooth development and growth of the baby, to see if everything is going smoothly. It shouldnt be taken as a gender detecting source. Leave it to Allah, He will like it and reward you with ever more than you could even have an idea!

imho, finding out gender beforehand isn’t interfering with Allah’s plan in any way unless you’re planning to abort your fetus if its not what you were expecting; i don’t think anyone here would do something as horrific. its a surprise AND Allah’s blessing- no matter when you find out, 20 weeks or at birth.

[khattichic]

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I agree with SGC on this…when we were going through IVF, my RE said we could opt for gender selection if we so chose to (and pay an additional $20K out of pocket to send the sperm to a special lab in California ) but I was vehemently against it as to me that would be interfering with Allah’s plans for us and our baby…however, finding out the gender of an already formed and thriving fetus during a routine ultrasound..I don’t see the harm in that at all!

I’ve heard that most dr’s/clinics in Pakistan do not reveal the gender though…

[somegroovychick]

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^ probably because people there might opt for aborting a female fetus. there are tons of cases like that in india, even though i'm pretty sure it is against the law to do so.

[Demilitarize]

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My hospital dont tell the gender of the baby!It is against their policy. what do I do to know?

go to an ultrasound specialist.
i was just thinking how important knowing was for me. and in knowing I named my child and the baby became real before birth for me and my husband especially due to having a name and gender.

[makd]

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I so want to do that. Just a few weeks wait!

[mirage]

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lol I can sense the excitement. Ma sha Allah

[zayma]

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do any of u feel likea sharp pain in ur lower stomach when u walk i get like a sharp pain and i stays for a few minutes is i cos im walking to fast?

[Demilitarize]

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nah. ur body is stretching. happens. i know the pain. I think every pregger woman does. don't fret it. listen to your body signals and move with them

[mirage]

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@zayma

do any of u feel likea sharp pain in ur lower stomach when u walk i get like a sharp pain and i stays for a few minutes is i cos im walking to fast?

I do but that is the lower abdomen or the pelvic floor. Not in the lower stomach.

[f3mail]

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I gave birth to a beautiful lil angel on 20-12-2012 thursday.I had normal delivery.I am MA very happy..had labour pains for 24 hours.Thanks to Allah for a beautiful baby.

[akmoti]

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^congratulations mashaAllah!

[WendyDarling]

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32 weeks pregnant … I’m carrying really low cause I seriously can’t even walk around anymore without it being really painful.
We’re redoing our master bath so we’re sleeping in the guest room .. it’s sooo uncomfy I miss my bed!! I wake up so many time during the night
I have so much left to be done .. everythings put on hold because of this bathroom reno Gotta get the crib set up, pack my hospital bag, get a pack n play for downstairs, get a swing, get a double stroller I’m gonna go crazy

[mirage]

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lol hang on there, woman! Start working on all this one by one

As for me, waitng… waiting…

[amaya]

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its 38th week has been started, still no pains in pelvic areas. yh sometime feel back pain or down back right side.
doing brisk walk at night. and also try to clean the floor while sitting on foot.

Doing this caz , doc sayng still muscle r nt strectchng i should do brisk walk and must be active.

[mirage]

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:hinna:

from what I ve been hearing from around, its almost the same story. People are mostly waiting and crossing the edd and still no signs of labor. This is something which scares me aswell.

[Demilitarize]

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im still wandering around , up and down stairs, travelling across pakistan. eighth month ending in five days. ninth month coming up.

[mirage]

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I ve found the 9th to be the best of all anyway. Because there is so much less care and waiting phase is almost over. :hinna:

[Mrs_NM]

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Hang in there girls, not long to go now!!!!

[Demilitarize]

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@mirage

I ve found the 9th to be the best of all anyway. Because there is so much less care and waiting phase is almost over. :hinna:

im beginning to fear the end. and the life change

[WendyDarling]

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Time flies when you’re pregnant and have a toddler. I don’t even know where time went … I am so not ready for baby yet I hope baby comes after 39 weeks …