I had the same problem during high school, Mashallah like Im 5’8 and like I use to model, play varsity basketball, soccer, karate blackbelt, NJ state Dance Champion, and Mashallah in studies I was always straight A’s and my friends started to hate bringing home because they would be compared.. but my mom never compared me to anyone and always believed in that you are your own person compete with yourself and make ur own goals.. so thats how I feel all parents should be like to there kids..