Mom in law vs husband

queen_24 · August 14, 2012, 12:14am

Re: Mom in law vs husband

Okay so mine has been a love marriage and its going good alhamdulilah. i stay with my husband’s family who are really nice ppl, accepted me very well, it has been a nice here. my husband and i have been friends all our life so the friendship and trust factor is very strong between us, mA

My MIL is a nice woman, She has gone through many ups and downs in life so i always have a soft corner for her.
One day it so happened that she needed some money, as she had put her daughter-my nanad’s jewellery and got gold loan on that. i mean not the banks one but the ‘rehen types’ where one has to pay interest and all. NOBODY in the house knows about it. my nanad had to leave to another country and money could not be arranged she asked for my help. I readily agreed. She requested me to not say this to anybody and she ll get back my jewellery as she would arrange money from somewhere. I gave her the jewellery they bought in my marriage.
The next time she again needed money and I again had to give, It has happenede four times yet. once she said she ll get it back in 24 hours but it couldnt happen. It makes around 9-10 tolas. Its been 8 months now and nothing has happened. I asked her coz i get questioned by my mom, hubby and most relative why i dont wear this this and this jewellery, to which i have no answer.

i have never hidden anything from my hubby and this makes it worse that i have been hiding all this from him. and nobody apart from the both of us and a servant knows about it. what should i do???

My husband is very righteous and he ll make a big issue abt it and i dont want him to hurt his mother but sometimes i feel i will lose all my trust when he comes to know abt it.

HELP me PLEASE

BOHAT PAGAL HO…