Re: Mixed Marriage
Just be yourself, and don't go overboard trying to be more pakistani than a pakistani. Wear clothes that you are comfortable with, cook Bengali dishes as well as dishes that your husband enjoys, and teach your kids both of your cultures. Ignore the idiots who preach cultural supremacy and the gossip-mongers. You may feel comfortable giving up aspects of your culture now, but trust me when I tell you that you will come to regret it down the road.
Th beauty of a mixed marriage is in taking the best of both cultures cultures.