Mixed Marriage

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Adaptation of culture, beliefs and religion is an Evolution in itself.

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Come on people. Look at the other side of picture too. I think she should change her nationality. IF she is planning to live in Pakistan and can't have dual. Cauz she gona need Pakistani ID card, Passport etc. Suppose she has to participate in elections, than how she'll do that. There are 100s of other reasons that she should get her nationality.

Changing nationality doesn't mean to change u'r last name or forget u'r heritage. Its same like people come to america from pakistan and get their nationalities. So not a biggy and neither an issue.

So just keep u'r mind open about it. Do what will make u'r life easier. Btw before u start thinking about getting married, ask u'r man to talk to his parents. Get their approval and than start planning. There is no point building castles in the air.

Good luck :)

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dont bash anyone for no reason.
the thing is in order to adapt with ur spouse u hafta change a few things
and also changing somethin of herself is her choice and if she was ashamed of her heritage i think she wudnt even tell us wat she was
shes stronger than a lot of us. shes gona try to make it work with her man by sacrificing sum
and she already mentioned her household is basically like pakistani culture.
so really wat is she changing the title?
easy there tiger.

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That’s exactly what I thought, by nationality she meant citizenship wise… dont know y everyone jumped on the “cultural” side of it :hehe:

I have a relative who married a benagli lady…shes very nice, can speak and understand urdu, and their kids are so smart mashallah…

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wasnt bangladesh called East Pakistan anyways before they turned independent?? so bangladeshis are practically old school pakstanis....hey, its all good!

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yes..and after segregation it became bangaladesh

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Thats a different show all together.
I was talking about what Islam preaches... Now what we DO as Muslims is a completely different story.
:)

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lol... in that case we're all old school indians b/c pak was part of india before independence :)

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Sahi

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WAH kya baat ki hay
aik aur star ho jai

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:khumar:wow u learn something new everyday! is it true?

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:eek: don’t let anil khan see this

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Dont worry Unkil Anils busy in the Cricket Forum :cb:

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Thanks for this Afro-Sheen!!!!!
Appreciate your comments!!!

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mixed marriages are fine. I am in a amixed marriage myself. I mean yeah I am a man and she is a woman, but that has never been a problem, except she cant really get as excited about F1, premiere league and rugby as I do, but thats okay, I have learnt to accept it and live with it.

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This is not a mixed marriag.e

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rotfl ur comments are so hilarious...keep them coming!

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Haha

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East Pakistanis/Bangladeshis are our brethern; and you speak urdu so i don't think it should be a problem; atleast i don't think it should. But there is a possibilty that his parents might discriminate.

Pakistani boys are heavily influenced by parents especially mothers. Just a heads up.

Good luck

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i'm pakistani (punjabi) and getting married to a bengali..and we literally are each other's whooooooole entire world... al hamdu lillah :)...me love him like craaazyyyy!

oh yeah, and our parents are really happy too masha'Allah (altho they weren't in the beginning).