"missing girls"

To date this grave situation persists - even religion cant enlighten these fools…

http://www.irinnews.org/print.asp?ReportID=47411

LAHORE, 31 May 2005 (IRIN) - Ultrasound technician, Dr Zaheer, wearily shakes his head as a young couple leave his office in the eastern Pakistani city of Lahore. He had declined to tell them the gender of the child they are expecting.

“It is unethical. I do not tell people the sex of their child, unless I am certain it is a boy,” he said. “But they will probably go somewhere else. There are quite literally hundreds of ultrasound facilities in this city and despite the code of conduct on this, it is not hard to find a technician who will tell them the gender,” Zaheer added.

TERMINATION OFTEN FOLLOWS

Should the foetus turn out to be female, there is a real likelihood that the parents may choose to abort it. Terminations based on gender have become increasingly common since ultrasound technology, able to detect the gender of a baby at around four months gestation, became commonly available.

Amina, aged 25, from a village near the industrial city of Faisalabad, 100km west of Lahore, is childless. She has been married for five years. In this time, she has been pregnant three times but each time, she says, her in-laws forced her to have an abortion because she was carrying a female child.

“I desperately want a baby, but I am terrified of once more having a girl in my belly,” Amina told IRIN. She lives in a society where there is a strong stigma against childlessness as well as girl babies but she adds: “This time I will fight really hard to keep the baby.”

While the ‘missing girls’ phenomena has been fairly extensively documented in India, where a strong preference for a male child has also led to millions of abortions of ‘unwanted’ females, less data is available on the situation in Pakistan.

IMPACT ON DEMOGRAPHY

Nevertheless, estimates suggest that by 2020, there will be an excess of four million men. This suggests that, when roughly even numbers of each sex may expect to be born, an almost equal number of girls have not survived.

Pakistan is one of the few countries in the world where population gender statistics are skewed in favour of men, demographers say. Out of a population of 149 million people, there are already 105 men for every 100 women, according to the latest demographic profiles.

FAVOURING BOYS

The reasons for this go beyond the issue of pre-natal gender selection. As many doctors will testify, many more girls than boys die under the age of five, since they are often fed less well than their male counterparts and are less likely to receive prompt medical care when ill.

“It is generally true, parents bring in sick boys far more often than sick girls. A girl’s health and physical well-being is placed at a far lower value compared to that of a boy child,” said Dr Ahad Abbas speaking to IRIN. He has been posted for two years to a tiny Rural Health Centre (RHC) near Taxila, in the northern Punjab.

Parents do not deny this bias. “For each of my four daughters, I will need to pay out a huge sum when they wed, as dowry and as expenses. My two sons will however add to the household earning,” maintained Rafiuddin, a father of six children who lives in the rural area of Narang Mandi, some 100 km from Lahore. He added, “I love my daughters, but they are some harsh economic realities that poor people like us must face.”

UNETHICAL BUT COMMON

Nearly a decade ago, as gender determination through pre-natal ultrasound screening became increasingly common, both the Pakistan Medical Association (PMA), the body of medical professionals, and the Pakistan Medical and Dental Council (PMDC), the main regulatory body for the profession, declared it to be ‘unethical’ to tell parents the gender of an unborn child.

However, the adherence to the declaration is almost impossible to enforce, with ultrasound clinics offering gender determination services now operating in almost every urban locality in a city like Lahore. Too often, the announcement that the baby is a girl will be followed by a visit to a back-street abortionist, functioning illegally in the Temple Road area of the city.

“Women come weeping to us, because they are carrying a second or third or fourth daughter. They are often too scared even to tell their husbands they are pregnant with another girl. They just want the foetus aborted, so they can try again for a boy,” says Lubna Baji, who runs a busy Lahore ultrasound clinic.

Police are often bribed not to intervene in the illegal trade according to human rights and gender activists. They say some of the clinics have now even gone so far as to set up ‘one stop’ gender detection and if required, abortion facilities.

HEALTH RISKS

“Such abortions are disastrous for women. Many suffer infections that damage their reproductive organs and in fact leave them unable to bear future children, male or female,” Dr Tabbasum, a gynaecolgist, told IRIN.

Campaigns by the Pakistan government to persuade people that daughters are to be valued as highly as sons have had only limited impact. So too have efforts by organisations such as the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF).

“Obviously there is lots of discrimination against girl children. We need more studies to determine in exactly what way this takes place,” said Sylvia Pastie, at UNICEF’s Islamabad office.

In families higher up the social scale, where economic pressures alone are not a major consideration, the desire for sons is still huge.

“No family is complete until there is at least one son,” insists Nuzhat Saleem, who gave birth to four daughters and finally a son.

LINKS TO GENDER EMPOWERMENT

“It’s all a question of the status of women in society. No policy, whether it aims at preventing pre-natal gender detection, or aspires to persuade families that daughters are as good as sons, can work unless it is part of a holistic plan,” said Nawera Ahmed, a researcher at the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan (HRCP). She holds that policies must aim at empowering women, educationally, economically and socially.

LAHORE, 31 May 2005 (IRIN) - Ultrasound technician, Dr Zaheer, wearily shakes his head as a young couple leave his office in the eastern Pakistani city of Lahore. He had declined to tell them the gender of the child they are expecting.

“It is unethical. I do not tell people the sex of their child, unless I am certain it is a boy,” he said. “But they will probably go somewhere else. There are quite literally hundreds of ultrasound facilities in this city and despite the code of conduct on this, it is not hard to find a technician who will tell them the gender,” Zaheer added.

TERMINATION OFTEN FOLLOWS

Should the foetus turn out to be female, there is a real likelihood that the parents may choose to abort it. Terminations based on gender have become increasingly common since ultrasound technology, able to detect the gender of a baby at around four months gestation, became commonly available.

Amina, aged 25, from a village near the industrial city of Faisalabad, 100km west of Lahore, is childless. She has been married for five years. In this time, she has been pregnant three times but each time, she says, her in-laws forced her to have an abortion because she was carrying a female child.

“I desperately want a baby, but I am terrified of once more having a girl in my belly,” Amina told IRIN. She lives in a society where there is a strong stigma against childlessness as well as girl babies but she adds: “This time I will fight really hard to keep the baby.”

While the ‘missing girls’ phenomena has been fairly extensively documented in India, where a strong preference for a male child has also led to millions of abortions of ‘unwanted’ females, less data is available on the situation in Pakistan.

IMPACT ON DEMOGRAPHY

Nevertheless, estimates suggest that by 2020, there will be an excess of four million men. This suggests that, when roughly even numbers of each sex may expect to be born, an almost equal number of girls have not survived.

Pakistan is one of the few countries in the world where population gender statistics are skewed in favour of men, demographers say. Out of a population of 149 million people, there are already 105 men for every 100 women, according to the latest demographic profiles.

FAVOURING BOYS

The reasons for this go beyond the issue of pre-natal gender selection. As many doctors will testify, many more girls than boys die under the age of five, since they are often fed less well than their male counterparts and are less likely to receive prompt medical care when ill.

“It is generally true, parents bring in sick boys far more often than sick girls. A girl’s health and physical well-being is placed at a far lower value compared to that of a boy child,” said Dr Ahad Abbas speaking to IRIN. He has been posted for two years to a tiny Rural Health Centre (RHC) near Taxila, in the northern Punjab.

Parents do not deny this bias. “For each of my four daughters, I will need to pay out a huge sum when they wed, as dowry and as expenses. My two sons will however add to the household earning,” maintained Rafiuddin, a father of six children who lives in the rural area of Narang Mandi, some 100 km from Lahore. He added, “I love my daughters, but they are some harsh economic realities that poor people like us must face.”

UNETHICAL BUT COMMON

Nearly a decade ago, as gender determination through pre-natal ultrasound screening became increasingly common, both the Pakistan Medical Association (PMA), the body of medical professionals, and the Pakistan Medical and Dental Council (PMDC), the main regulatory body for the profession, declared it to be ‘unethical’ to tell parents the gender of an unborn child.

However, the adherence to the declaration is almost impossible to enforce, with ultrasound clinics offering gender determination services now operating in almost every urban locality in a city like Lahore. Too often, the announcement that the baby is a girl will be followed by a visit to a back-street abortionist, functioning illegally in the Temple Road area of the city.

“Women come weeping to us, because they are carrying a second or third or fourth daughter. They are often too scared even to tell their husbands they are pregnant with another girl. They just want the foetus aborted, so they can try again for a boy,” says Lubna Baji, who runs a busy Lahore ultrasound clinic.

Police are often bribed not to intervene in the illegal trade according to human rights and gender activists. They say some of the clinics have now even gone so far as to set up ‘one stop’ gender detection and if required, abortion facilities.

HEALTH RISKS

“Such abortions are disastrous for women. Many suffer infections that damage their reproductive organs and in fact leave them unable to bear future children, male or female,” Dr Tabbasum, a gynaecolgist, told IRIN.

Campaigns by the Pakistan government to persuade people that daughters are to be valued as highly as sons have had only limited impact. So too have efforts by organisations such as the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF).

“Obviously there is lots of discrimination against girl children. We need more studies to determine in exactly what way this takes place,” said Sylvia Pastie, at UNICEF’s Islamabad office.

In families higher up the social scale, where economic pressures alone are not a major consideration, the desire for sons is still huge.

“No family is complete until there is at least one son,” insists Nuzhat Saleem, who gave birth to four daughters and finally a son.

LINKS TO GENDER EMPOWERMENT

“It’s all a question of the status of women in society. No policy, whether it aims at preventing pre-natal gender detection, or aspires to persuade families that daughters are as good as sons, can work unless it is part of a holistic plan,” said Nawera Ahmed, a researcher at the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan (HRCP). She holds that policies must aim at empowering women, educationally, economically and socially.

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sad.. . its murder.

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this reminds me of what the non-believers did in the time of the Prophet (pbuh) - whenever a girl was born, they would bury her because she was thought to be weak and a burden on her family..

and these are the things that we need to change in our country - the thought that girls are burdens on their parents. yes, i agree that every parent is worried about their daughter getting married and living a happy life. but the stuff about the dowry and the expenses that go along with it. that’s what needs to be eliminated. for crying out loud, parents are giving you their daughters, and you still want something more! it has never made sense to me. it’s been so embedded into our culture, that i don’t know how we could possibly make it stop.

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abortion should be used only in case of emergency, such as rape or serious desease who would kill the mother if she keeps the baby further....not for gender discrimination...it is disgusting, revolting, unethical, and unislamic!

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How could this happen in an islamic republic?

People need to be educated!
Finally it is a good thing that the issue is being brought forward!

I don't know what is happening in India regards to that but it is even a worser problem over there!

People need to get out of this sick mentality!

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Smilestar is right. This is exactly like 'burying female child' situation of ancient times. Except now mothers are endangering themselves as well. Imagine a woman aborting a female child and then not be able to have any other kids. In a twisted way it's sweet justice. Any person who can't accept the blessing and gift from Allah shouldn't get a second chance. China is experiencing something similar isn't it? The "Little Emporer Syndrome" Male children are so spoiled, given anything they want, made obese and lazy. What happens to a society that is overpopulated with males anyways?

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I blame women for this !

I swear to you if those mothers would start slapping their sons for saying such things. Things would stop.

Give Pakistan another few years and we will hear articles on homosexuality on regular basis .

You morons, donkeys and monkeys if there are no girls how do you expect to grow the population. Regardless Pakistan's population is leaking out of the county today but if things keep on going towards this route. I dont see that day very far when there is atleast one homosexual in every single house.

I said it before and i will say it again. Only women can stop this nonsense. IF anyone on gupshup going through these issues i would personally give you advice. How to beat the crap out of your husband for saying such a thing. People forget this world is just temporary we have to answer Allah. Does that women realizes what she would have to go through for killing an innocent little being that has not even come in this world.

Women stop this nonsense raise your voice and for heaven's sake quit crying and do something about it.

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Hone do phir logon ke aankhein kholaingey jab unke beta ghar se bhaagjaingey becoz he is homo sexual.

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^..and they'll also realize when something like this happens to their own daughters. however they don't realize it when they're saying it to their daughter in laws :(

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retarded culture!

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On the one hand, we have protests and, some would say, with very good reason, irrationally violent acts of anger over Rasul's picture's with a bomb on top of his head, and yet, no protests over this nonsense by these same mullahs. On top of it, our own Rasul that people are desperately trying to "defend" by burning buildings and killing other muslims (ironically), had LOTS of daughters, many of whom became religious leaders in their own right.

Interestingly, the Prophet never had a son that did not die as an infant. And even the majority of offspring of his that were born, were female anyway.

Hm.

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Sickening.....I hope Allah put those a-holes in hell for all eternity (who abort after learning its a girl). I wish that women have the courage to tell the men to get the eff out of here if you do not want a duaghter or keep it in your pants if you cannot fathom the thought of being a father to a girl.
I wish I could whoop these "parahy lekhay jahil".

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very sad :(

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yeah this also leads to another question. usually you ask someone where you from they will say cast of their father mothers does’nt matter at all.

If thats the case why do people call themselves syeds because Prophet PBUH never had a son.

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thats pakistan for you - our retarded biased and confused culture.

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It comes from the whole girls are "bhooj"

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Barfee is a "bhooj" ... :(

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only if the female population literacy rate would rise - this assinine ignorance would end

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That's so sad.
But I think ppl unfairly blame just the females.
It's the whole culture . . . no gender is excluded i think. They're both to blame.