Mismatched Couple

Lifestyle Relationships
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A friend of mine said ‘pass’ to very nice and decent girl recently just because the girl is a few inches taller than him. He is like 5’ 6 – 150 lbs and the girl is 5’ 9 hmm looks around the same weight or slightly less.

The funny thing is the girl likes to wear high heals and believes that its not her fault that my friend feels ‘intimidated’ :-D…even though all the poor guy is saying is that it’s a mismatched couple…nothing to do with intimidation. They get along fine otherwise….both are crack pots. God did the best He could other than the height issue.

Would you consider them a mismatched couple? They look kinda odd standing together though..

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The girl is right, her height is her asset so let her wear high heelsif it makes her feel good!
Adivise yr friend to notice her attitude and personality...other wise wear elevated shoes!

3

well, i'm a bit taller than my husband ....
but neither of us care about it ..
mismatched r those who may be perfect in appearance but can't keep each other happy ....!!

in my view , your friend is acting immature

4

Are you asking my friend to wear six inch high heals or asking the girl to wear khussas?
Whats wrong with the guy's attitude/personality? you don't see them mismatched? Please esssplain. Merci.

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Height is probably not the only issue. If you really like someone, you tend to look over things like height, etc. Or so I have noticed.

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^ ^ ^
Holy. I think I need a guy's reply too. :)

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Boss I honestly do not think anything is wrong with that. However, you know how people are. Some people let a really nice guy/girl slep right out of there hands b/c of something soo dumb and nothing really. I think it is there lost in the end.

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You’re friend is an idiot. He should be thinking long legs that don;t seem to end that he will cherish for years to come. :love:

Whenever you saw Billy Joel with CHristy Brinkley, you naver said..“look at them..they look so funny together”…You said…“damn…he is one lucky ba$tard”

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In this case though…i believe the guy can’t really ‘look’ over. If you know what i mean :halo:

Boss: It’s typical desi mentality (i am not saying it’s bad or anything)…but the way it goes is that the guy is a few inches taller than the girl (dunno if it gives him a feel-good shot upfront… ::konfused: )

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I am real finicky about this..

I personally wouldn't go out with a guy shorter or younger than me :D

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I remember watching govinda dancing with sushmita sen..govinda must be wearing a 3 inch heels while sushmita was'nt wearing any heels at all...that was funny..i dont think i would go for a girl taller then me

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^ :hehe:

truly Boss yr friend IS intimidated.

its an old trend that a guy should be a few yrs older and a few inches taller!

BS!

he shud try to appreciate the brighter side!

13

I have to agree with DD....I wouldn't go for someone shorter than me or the same age/younger than me.

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Disco~Duck and Mahnaz : so the first thing in a guy u look is height! whats next color? is guy is a commodity.. when does the actual human being come in ur mind..

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*Disco~Duck and Mahnaz : so the first thing in a guy u look is height! whats next color? is guy is a commodity.. when does the actual human being come in ur mind..
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Actually, it is combination. If someone is 5'5, I wouldn't even bother with him. From 5'9 to 5'5, that is simply too much of a difference. Anyway, the majority of guys hear my height and THEY reject me before even seeing me! A lot of guys simply do not want a taller girl.

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i like guyz to be taller than me. but on the other hand i've seen couples where girls are taller than their hubbies and live happily. :)

i guess its what u r most comfortable with matters in the end.

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We can say we prefer or wish some height or physical attribute but outright staunch adamant to some limit is not sensible.. we may be missing some great chances of happiness while setting limits!

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I've seen countless girls be with guys a few inches (2-3 at the most) than them in height. They live perfectly normal lives. No need to wear heels. I've asked the guys, if they feel any difference and the only thing they say, the girl is a bit tall to dance with.

I've known this other couple where the husband is 5'3 and the wife is 5'7" the sons have grown up to be 5'11" masha'Allah and all of them never make it an issue as some have over here. But its all in the name of preference, to each their own.

Personally, being 5'6" I wouldn't mind being with someone taller or shorter. Height hasn't really been an issue for me aside from early teens, besides why stick with desi stereotypes when the sky is the limit. Expand your horizons I'd say, why bother lurking in the same curry infested gene pool when you can find just as good or better else where, then that way there isn't much of these insecurities and are easily overlooked. So what if the girl is taller, so what if she can attract men at the drop of a hankerchef, the guy has to realize that she's with him for a damn good reason.

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:k:

So how come ‘desis’ can’t be more like you??

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hmmm....interesting thread...

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*Disco~Duck and Mahnaz : so the first thing in a guy u look is height! whats next color? is guy is a commodity.. when does the actual human being come in ur mind..
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Degas bhai....i think part of the reason a lot of females go for taller guys is that they dont want the guy, if he is shorter, feeling bad looking at them and feeling shorter or being made fun of for being shorter...its not just abt high demands of females.... i think its more abt girls caring that the guy is not made to feel bad in any way or doesnt feel bad abt himself for being shorter than his wife...