Miserable, Confused and Just Can't Take It..Help please..

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Re: Miserable, Confused and Just Can’t Take It..Help please..

Ria I really am happy that this isn’t an online thing

Ok someone who treats you like crap ( like the way this guy is treating you) is not worth it at all. I hope you realise that even if you get married to him his criticism won’t stop ever. So what if you had a past? Most guys do and girls still accept them. We marry guys who are older than us, we’re nice enough to marry guys with a past, we’re nice enough not to bring it up all the time. What’s his problem? Sorry but i’m not liking this weirdo at all. Which guy sits and writes out paras and paras all night then copy paste them? There’s something wrong here. This guy has serious issues going on.

@ria786

No I didn’t meet him online- we met at uni.

Updates:

He’s been (since thurs) making it blatantly obvious to me yet again that I have done something wrong but not telling me what the exact problem is. So today I just sort of snapped- I basically said everything posted here (along the same lines) and he replies back with a bunch of things including ‘i can’t believe how much ur hurting me by saying this stuff to me’ and ‘you weren’t supposed to ever hurt me, you weren’t supposed to do this’ and ‘you are a screw up’( the U being me).

So I told him it was over. He refuses to accept it even though he keeps telling me how miserable I make him.

I told him he’s supposed to communicate with me and he said that he (surprise surprise) wrote out a huge document in WORD which he was going to show me on Monday to explain his behaviour ( no doubt this document outlines how horrible I am). When I told him to man up and tell his parents he acted like I committed the biggest sin in the universe.

May Allah give me strength to carry on. Ameen.