Re: millenials/ marriage/ Long term goals
Meh. It is what it is. At one point, marriage was a necessity for women for survival. Where would they go? Who would feed them? They had to make it work no matter what. Now, its not the case. I am not fighting you…just stating what I see to be the case. If a marriage will work in today’s age…it’ll have to work from both sides with equal effort because both sides are now equally capable of fending for themselves.
Women actually don’t poop out babies…if you study anatomy…the process is quite different and the way you described it shows how you view women. Its not something to be proud of.
I am not here to convince you…these are not opinions. Its today’s reality. The women I know who stayed single for longer than normal and then married only did so when they found something that worked for them. Not because they needed someone to feed them or a corner to live out their days quietly. I still know several single women who are educated, driven, successful and extremely involved in the betterment of their communities since their time is not occupied by kids and husbands. They might be lonely but they are by no means miserable or suffering. Of course, well need companionship but these days women compromise less to get/keep that.
And as far as being *****y is concerned. Any attitude a woman has which a man does not like is considered *****y. What’s to be done about it? Nothing.