millenials/ marriage/ Long term goals

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Re: millenials/ marriage/ Long term goals

@srkan2007

Anyway:), my question is what do you guys things of marriage in today’s age especially the millennials (born after 84) and expectations as we move into our 30’s and 40’s. Is it that important? Are relationships going to be that long-lasting? Is it harder than our parents had it?

Also what to do guys think of what’s happening around us and do you in anyway contribute to the betterment?

I would like to hear what you’ll think in general even it’s the opposite.

There was a phase where just getting married settling down was important. However with time, this has become a little less of a priority. Maybe even standards have gone higher. I wont finish studying till probably 30 and that if things go well, so getting married in the meantime would only really happen if I found someone that shared the same priorities.So, I would at same stage want to get married, however really getting married does guarantee good company or that you wont die alone etc…your spouse could die before,you could never have children and really we all die alone, it’s all very alone after the dying part. So yes I do believe that marriage can add and enrich your life, but really it can also cause great harm if you end up with the wrong person. Most things can be sorted out , if both parties are willing to do so and I guess that’s what makes relationships long lasting. I think there’s all types oft thinkers out there, there’s people who think I ll just find someone better and there’s those that are willing to do all their can to make things work. Who you find, is your luck. Betterment is dependant on what we do with our lives, married or unmarried.So if you continue to add value to society someway or the other than marriage does not really hinder betterment in the greater sense. But all this heavily depends on who you marry and like-mindedness between couples. I think maybe in other places, school,work etc you can use reason and logic and work way towards success. I think, relationships are a little different. You can try and use reasoning to find the “right” person, but really are their right or will they remain right, only time will tell. So I don’t see any harm in waiting. Marriage is important in its own right.