no it won’t be a turn-off for all girls. lol. some girls would love to live with their inlaws. one of my cousins looked for a family where she could live with inlaws. she got just that in the end and she is so happy, mashallah. everyone’s choices are different.
i think its really sweet, mashallah you are so caring towards your parents. i hope you meet someone just as caring, inshallah.